1. Stop sleeping with the ex.
2. Study and ace the GRE.
3. Select a new job.
4. Stay the course on the Hamptons House.
5. Stick to walking the dogs daily.
6. Sip in lieu of chugging
7. Swim as often as possible while the summer and Hamptons oblige.
8. Steer clear of dating this season.
9. Spend more time with my family.
10. Seek out new experiences: people, events, performances, etc.
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Wait, so you did quit your current job?
What's up with sleeping with D'Souza and not telling us?
Did he come sniffing around because of the hints you dropped on your blog? (who could blame him) How does that fit in with the painting you saw summarizing your "OVER" attitude?
Anyway, let me just say that nothing disappoints me more than a backslider. Disengagements and breakups should be just as solid and firm--reasons just as compelling--as coming-togethers/attractions.
Said another way: if there's no compelling reason to either fuck, or not to fuck, let inertia guide your course. Do whatever is good/easy unless a VITAL reason appears to decide otherwise.
Other inquiries: so are Indian guys well-hung? What exactly are you *doing* with him? Statistics say they don't have the meat. Begs the question, if you know what I mean. What's his claim to fame?
While I kiss and tell, I'm swallowing my knowledge on the D'Sz count. I will say that he knows his way around THE boudoir! Oh, he buys MAGNUMS if that helps.
As far as what we're "doing"...I have NO idea. Which poses the question: Why am I doing it then?
I comeback with the uber cliche: I have needs that have been met for too long for me to do without. Hmmm maybe the second half of that isn't SO cliche.
But as per the preceding post, I've resolved to do without in the name of finding the full package (please don't insert innuendo relating to HIS package here--THAT is not the problem).
I'm not backsliding...just stagnating there is a difference. Perhaps stagnating is worse because as least when you backslide you are somewhere "new" or at least firmly IN something old--there is the hope of hitting bottom and eventually MOVING on. The danger with stagnation is the absence of action...inaction=bad.
Oh. Okay. Well, I guess you're self-aware enough to spot all the hazards/choices involved here.
It's not for me to second-guess via your blog writings! What a back-seat driver I'm being here.
Srsly, I need to stop putting in my 2 cents as if I am the only one giving you counsel. I am sure you've chatted with your galpals about every aspect of this already.
But, I will admit to wondering what relationship-qualities D'Sz was lacking in, which forced the decision to go single again. They must have been a really glaring omission to put you in this quandary.
Again, I trust that they were; and you made the right choice, whatever it was. But to another guy, I guess maybe the thought of some dude getting 'free' sex (as in, a sure thing without having to work for it anymore) is kinda annoying . . even if in the abstract. He's basically tying up the market. You're a frozen asset in the free NYC market!
Like, remember those kids who made the pass at you in that house party? Think of the children!
:p)
Are Indian guys well-hung? Was D'Souza better than Shalin?
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